no one.

its staggering.

we play with emotions and we're unaware of it almost all of the time. and when we become conscious of these emotions, we find that we have already dug a hole so deep that it takes more effort to get out of it than fall into it.

i was getting lost in the stacks at the Rush Rhees library at the University of Rochester last night. oh boy. that place is freaking huge. so enormous that they actually need a whole building for new stacks of books, and a whole building for the old stacks of books. 5 floors each (or more, i could be wrong). being a "classical romantic", i was hanging out at the old stacks of course, on the 5th floor where one can find books about religions. shelves and shelves of scholarly articles about Christianity, and a bunch of other beliefs. i got so excited that i almost peed in my pants. if only i had an infinite amount of time, i would be spending a great deal of my life reading books in that place. calm and peaceful, sometimes eerie, i was sitting down on an old chair facing the window. the skies that night were clear, not much clouds, nor stars. it was just clear. i looked to my left and stumbled upon a shelf that had a book misplaced as it laid ontop of the other books lifelessly. the book's cover was of red leather (probably due to age), and a familiar symbol of a cross in the middle. i picked it up, opened it, and to my gentle and pleasant surprise, it was a book of prayers. prayers that has been passed down generations after generations to most Christians. the first time i flipped through the pages, my sight landed upon the very first prayer i learned as a tod. it was a prayer to God asking for His angels to guide and gaurd me. it made my night.

it scares me when someone tells me or asks me that he or she is going to partake in a certain activity, and that this certain activity is outside the norm of thinking from society's. so much of the "modern" mass thinks that "if i believe it is right, then it is right." what crap. this is how narrow minded we can get sometimes. i, too, fall into the trap. but at least i make an effort to be self-aware. the problem is when people aren't trying to be self-aware. why should we be aware?

1 + 1 = 2

i know this is right. through a bunch of theorms and proofs, we know that this is right.

1 + 1 = 3

i know this is wrong. BUT, if i believed it were right and not wrong, would you correct me? of course. obviously. so why believe in something that you "feel is right"? it doesn't make sense all the time to do so...

there is simple logic in most truths. we can easily deny claims if it is obviously wrong. but how about morality? or the ever changing modern way of thinking? or the way emotions come and go? or the way truths of life are revealed one moment, and disappear the next? am i to judge people because i feel that they are ignorant?

what bothers me is the lack of awareness people have. for example, why pick on someone's feelings? look, ask the right questions if you want to get the right answers. why would you ask a question that you already know the answers to? because you want assertion? why then become upset if you hear what you don't want? because that too is a form/kind of assertion.

i love how people turn the tables on you... even though you were the person being asked. then they pick on you because you answered their question "wrongly" (more like they don't get what they want to hear). and then you tell them that you are being hurt by their enjoyment of limited superiority through verbal attacks because you were honest with them. then they say they weren't picking on you in the first place. they weren't picking on you when they asked you a question with an expected reply (but never got it) then becoming upset and mocking your intellect because you gave them your honest opinion? what contradiction and inconsistency! i would even claim it to be a blasphemy. how is that not picking on you?

and everything else you say will be used against you, mind you. you have to keep in mind that you can never "win". you will be digging an even deeper hole if you try and defend yourself. even if they apologize that they didn't mean it to sound like they were picking on you... the fact stays that it was some form of attack. how else is it to be viewed? the question that was asked already had a pending answer or expected fall of events.

its a trap then.

and then, once you have "rebelled" enough, you are told that you are taking this all the wrong way. how nice. after reasoning out what just had happened, your efforts of trying to communicate the truths in a situation is all in vain. every single truth that came out of your mouth is ignored. why? because some modern minds would just think this... "if i think it is right, then it is right."

what contradiction. modern mind?

i'm not alive to please you and give you answers that you want to hear. instead i show another aspect of life that will not always be pleasant. i apologize that i do not aggravate the proper senses, and i do not seem to support you... but all in all, i pray you understand that a lot of my will, thinking, and passions are not determined by silly scenarios that are blurted out for the sake of hearing what you want.

it's unfair.

but like the "modern mind" some people are, they just turn the tables on you all the time. make you seem like you're the bad guy. make you feel that your opinions are insignificant, they end up doing what they want, they complain if you do not care enough for them, but they complain if you care too much.

like i said, "its a trap".

another hearing...

"let us proclaim the mystery of faith"

during the preparation of the Eucharist, the priest would say this line as the congregation is kneeling down. i've heard this line thousands of times before but i never really took notice of it.

when the priest says mystery... i'm like, "which one?" there's so many. or at least that's what i thought. it bothered me a little because we were proclaiming it too! a mystery is being proclaimed?! we must be crazy.

but we are crazy. crazy about living life to the fullest through the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

so yeah... we are proclaiming the mysteries of faith. i reflected a little on it. what is the mystery? there's so much to pick from, we say? not so. what do the Catholics give as a reply when the priest says this line?

"Christ has died. Christ has risen. Christ will come again."

there is good reason why we proclaim this. we want to be saved. we want eternal life. and we want to be in the presence of God's unconditional love. there is also good reason why it is a mystery. Christ was fully man, and fully God when he walked this Earth, how then can He be two beings at one time? to die and to rise again? virtually impossible, yes. but above all, the second coming, when and how will it come?

but to proclaim a mystery. it is still unsettled in me. perhaps it is because we believe in a mystery. to believe in a mystery is pretty disturbing to some people out there. but then again, perhaps that is what faith is.

faith is to belive in a mystery then? let us be reminded that these mysteries are not meant for us to solve. God never said anything in the bible, neither is it stated in the church's doctrines that a believer should come up with an answer to these mysteries. we're not required to solve them. we are, however, required to believe in them. but why believe in a mystery if it is never going to be answered or solved by anyone?

who says a believer has to? Jesus already solved it. and He will solve it again for us. He has the answers. He fulfills these mysteries.

imagination

"Come with me
And you'll be
In a world of
Pure imagination
Take a look
And you'll see
Into your imagination

We'll begin
With a spin
Traveling in
The world of my creation
What we'll see
Will defy
Explanation

If you want to view paradise
Simply look around and view it
Anything you want to, do it
Wanta change the world?
There's nothing
To it

There is no
Life I know
To compare with
Pure imagination
Living there
You'll be free
If you truly
Wish to be"

the photo is my 2007 happy face! wheeee!!!

i love how the power of imagination can save one's sanity. haha. it definitely helped me save mine. new year, and i'm already facing a lot of ordeals. sweet. i can't wait for the harder ones to swing by. i mean, let's not be afraid to learn, yes? =)

you know another thing i love? the fact that when i "leave" someone's life, only then do they start opening up to what i've always been telling them. haha. we all learn. so do i. =)

another thing i love is how people cloak themselves with "knowledge". haha. they talk like they know everything there is to know about a certain subject, like religion (and God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit) when in truth they know very little. mmm.

i'm loving the fact that a good friend is coming to UofR! i remember the first time we met, we talked hours on end. it was awesome! haha. and thank you for being there when i needed a shoulder to lean on. and i'm glad we cleared things out. i just hope that i grow stronger, not weaker. and next time i cry, it'll be your turn to be there, k? hehe :P

oh yeah, shout out to my roommate! Chester! wheee! =) roommate lovers! hahahaha!!! jk~ there are many things i need to be thankful for in 2006, and one of them is meeting you. thanks for looking after me! =D

eastman peeps! Gary, Caroline, Dan Baer, Audrey and so much more! ay. the list goes on. thanks for looking out for me! =)

i'm also very thankful for a very special relationship. now, you're a figment of my romantic imagination. you're always in my prayers. stay safe always. i'm glad that you're in the road you're in. you'll always have a friend in me.

alright peeps, 2007, wish all of you a happy new year!